Listening
 1. Eyes - Look at the person who is talking.
2. Hands - Put your hands on your lap (or on your table or by your sides) and get into the listening position.  3. Ears - Hear what is being said to you.
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Skill 1
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Listening
 1. Look at the person who is talking.
 2. Listen to and think about what is being said.
 3. If needed, ask a question.
 4.When appropriate, say what you want or need to say. |
Skill 1
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Following Directions
1. Listen to the direction. 2. Ask a question if needed or if you don't understand.  3. Repeat the direction out loud or to yourself.
 4. Get ready to follow the direction.
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Using Nice Talk
1. Look at the person you want to talk to. 2. Think about what you want to say.  3. Keep your hands by your sides and use a friendly face.
4. Say what you want to say in a friendly way. | Skill 3
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| Asking for Help(When Sitting at Your Desk) 1. Decide if you really need to ask for help. 2. Raise your hand and look at the person you want help from.  3. Wait until you are recognized.
4. Say, "I need help" , in a nice or quiet voice and tell the person what you need help with.
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Asking for Help(When You Need to Approach Someone)  1. Walk up to the person you want help from.
2. Look at the person and cue the person to get his or her attention. 3.Wait until you are recognized.
4. Say, "I need help" , in a nice or quiet voice and tell the person what you need help with. | Skill 4
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Waiting fo Your Turn
 1. Sit or stand in the waiting (listening) position.
2. Think about making a Good Choice to wait or think about something else that you're interested in.
3. Relax and watch for the person you are waiting for to stop, look at you, and ask you what you need.
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How to Interrupt
1. Decide if you need to interrupt. 2. If you need to interrupt, walk up to the person you need.
3. Make eye contact with the pesron, cue him or her, and wait quietly for your
turn.
4. Say, "Excuse me" one time to the person you need. 5. Wait again until the person stops, looks at you, and asks you what you need. | Skill 6
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Ignoring
1. Look away, turn away, or walk away from the person or distraction.  2. Close your ears and do not listen.
 3. Be silent; do not say anything. | Skill 7
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Dealing With Teasing
 1. Take a deep breath and count to five.
2. Ignore the person teasing you, using your Ignoring skill. 3. If needed, say, "Please STOP IT," in a brave voice. 4. If needed, walk away from the person. 5. If needed, ask for help using your Asking for Help skill. | Skill 8
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Dealing With Losing
1. Take a deep breath and count to five. 2. Say, "Everyone can't win every time." 3. Think about the last time you won a similar activity and say, "Maybe I'll win next time." 4.Decide whether you want to play again or do something else.
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| Accepting Consequences
1. Take a deep breath and count to five. 2. Think about what is being said. 3. Say, "I'm sorry I made a Bad Choice," and specify what should have been done.
4. Follow the directions or the steps of the consequence using your Following Directions skill. | Skill 10
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